Showing posts with label New Books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New Books. Show all posts

Sunday, April 6, 2014

New Non-Fiction Bedtime Stories



Most people think of bedtime stories as having talking animals, princesses, tractors that can talk or a blue cat with big white shoes.  While reading every day to your youngsters is important, it doesn’t have to be the same story books over and over again.  If you have a child who doesn’t like to read or be read to, try introducing non-fiction books into your bedtime routine.  The children’s department at Liberal Memorial Library just got in a whole lot of non-fiction books, a lot of which would make the perfect bedtime story.

Every kid likes gross things, and we just got the No Way series by Michael Rosen.  Learn about disgusting foods (for example, the world’s most expensive coffee – kopi luwak, which is basically kitty litter coffee) in Strange Foods.  Or learn about strange careers in Weird Jobs.  Who knows, maybe after reading this book to your son, he will become a manure inspector when he grows up!

I love, love, love Bedtime Math (and Bedtime Math 2) by Laura Overdeck.  It is so much fun for kids.  Plus, if you have more than one kid, you can read it to all of them at one time.  It will only take a few minutes to do one or two problems a night before bed.  There are three different math problems (each for a different age group) that are accompanied by a story (something that will definitely interest kids, like sharks, teeth falling out and ice cream).  These books definitely make math fun.  Oh, and the book even has the answers, just in case your math skills are a little rusty. 

Kids who like facts, records and oddities should check out the Ripley’s Believe It or Not series.  We just got 31 new books in the series.  Learn about amazing people, animal antics, or find out whether or not that was a good idea.  Each book isn’t too long, has great pictures, and facts that your kids are going to be talking about at the breakfast table the next morning.  I just read about a prison break in Mexico where the convicts spent months digging a tunnel.  It turns out that their escape tunnel came up in the local courtroom. 

Of course, no discussion of non-fiction would be complete without mentioning the new dinosaur books.  The Discovering Dinosaurs series by Jinny Johnson would be perfect for kids who are between five and eight years old.  Big, colorful pictures and big text make the book interesting and a really fast read.  It even tells you how to pronounce the names of the dinosaurs, so you won’t stumble over “yangchuanosaurus”.

For older readers, we just got in Cold Cases by Matt Anniss.  If you’ve ever wondered about the science of crimes and how detectives can solve old crimes, this book is going to answer some of those questions. 

Ok, and if you’ve read this far, you definitely deserve a super-secret tip on non-fiction.  A lot of the fairytales and fables that you know from a kid are actually classified as non-fiction.  So, if you are looking for Goldilocks and the Three Bears or Mother Goose, check in non-fiction. 

Every time that I walk down the non-fiction rows in the library, I discover something new that I want to read.   Plus, since we are always getting new books in, I don’t think that I will ever be able to read everything that piques my interest.  From animals to cookbooks, history and biographies, the children’s non-fiction section of Liberal Memorial Library has books for every child of every age.
                          

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Make visits to the library a part of your NYE Resolutions

Eleven days into the New Year, have you kept your New Year’s Resolutions?  Some core items that individuals set their goals on include spending more time with family and friends, getting fit, financial goals, learning something new, and getting organized, taming the clutter. If one is on your list, the library can help you! We have a wealth of information and books about making your resolutions a possibility.

For getting fit, we have Zumba and introductory yoga books and DVDs to help you along the way. Within the last few weeks, we've acquired new cookbooks including “The Daniel Plan” by Rick Warren, Daniel Amen, and Mark Hyman, “Giada’s feel good food: my healthy recipes and secrets” by Giada De Laurentiis, and “Wheat Belly” by William Davis. On display in the adult area are “Real Food’ by Nina Planck and “Skinny Bitch in the Kitch” by Rory Freedman.

The newest financial book on the shelf, is “Jim Cramer’s get rich carefully” by James Cramer as well as others on the non-fiction shelves.

For organization check out “Organic Housekeeping” by Ellen Sandbeck, “The Organized Home” by Leslie Plummer Clagett, and a slew of Martha Stewart books. Family Circle, Real Simple, Good Housekeeping, and Martha Stewart Living magazines (not the only ones) are great for finding articles and recipes. Or check out our newest Zinio magazine subscription on your e-reader.

If you’re learning something new, check out our computer classes every week on Tuesdays at 11 a.m. Or start a path on web design and languages with “Web design in a nutshell” or an audiobook on learning German, Greek, Portuguese or Japanese.  

As for spending more time with family and friends, do so at the library! You knew that’s where I was going didn't you? In the month of January, children’s programs include Stories on Mondays at 11:15 a.m., Wednesdays at 9:30 a.m., and Thursdays at 11:15 a.m., Lapsit on Tuesdays at 11:15 a.m., and Evening Story time on Tuesday nights at 6 p.m.  There will be a Cowboy Party on Saturday, January 25. Registration is required for this one so call the library today.  There will also be a Chinese New Year’s Eve Party on Tuesday, January 28 during Evening Story time.

Family Place Library Parent/Child Workshops will also have a run early this year starting on Thursday, February 27 at 6:30 p.m.  Join us to play with your children, meet other parents, and have fun.
 
Library and Lunch will be meeting this week on Tuesday, January 14 at noon for “The Husband’s Secret” by Liane Moriarty.  We meet every second Tuesday of the month so join us this year! Book Chat will also take place on Thursday, January 16 at 6:30 p.m. Come and discuss what you’re reading and check out new books at the library. Recipe Swap will be held on Monday, January 27 at 6:30 p.m. Bring a copy of a recently made by you recipe to share with the group.

For the latest library programming take a peek at the library website or grab a newsletter from the circulation desk. Stay tuned and connected through our social media pages. If you have any questions or suggestions about books or programs don't hesitate to ask. Make visits to the library a part of your NYE Resolutions!

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Graphic Novels can be "Super" Without the "Hero"



When you think graphic novels, you’re probably thinking Batman, Superman, Spider-man and Captain America. But graphic novels cover more than just the superhero genre. It can be fiction or non-fiction, comedy or romance, science fiction or western. Graphic novels can cover the spectrum of genres.

If you’re looking for a graphic novel that is different and a little more challenging, the Library has something for you. And graphic novels run the gamut – in terms of age – from children to young adult to adult.

Check out these new graphic novels at the Library.

Maus by Art Spiegelman is definitely not for kids. It may look like a kid’s book with mice and pigs and cats, but it’s not. The book tackles the subject of the Holocaust and survival in a concentration camp in graphic novel form. The characters are portrayed as animals – Jews are mice, Poles pigs, Germans cats, Americans dogs, and French frogs.
Boxers (Boxers & Saints) by Gene Luen Yang is a story about China’s Boxer Rebellion in the late 19th century.

In 1898 China, bands of foreign missionaries and soldiers roam the countryside, bullying and robbing Chinese peasants. Little Bao has had enough. Harnessing the powers of ancient Chinese gods, he recruits an army of Boxers - commoners trained in kung fu who fight to free China from "foreign devils." Against all odds, this grass-roots rebellion is violently successful. But nothing is simple. Little Bao is fighting for the glory of China, but at what cost? So many are dying, including thousands of "secondary devils" – Chinese citizens who have converted to Christianity.

For something more traditional, Batman: Death of the Family depicts the return of the Joker and his twisted plan to gain revenge against not only Batman, but his super-hero family. Does the Joker actually succeed? It’s a suspense-filled, thrill ride right down to the final pages.

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If you’re into romance, we’ve got what you’re looking for. The Library recently received the entire six-book Harmony series written by New York Times and USA Today best-selling author Jodi Thomas. The series takes place in the small town of Harmony, Texas where you’ll read about the romance and escapades of its citizens. The books are: Welcome to Harmony, Somewhere Along the Way, The Comforts of Home, Just Down the Road, Chance of a Lifetime and Can't Stop Believing.

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We’re having a book sale from Thursday, December 5 to Saturday, December 7. The book sale will be open during Library hours. There will be hundreds of books for sale – fiction and non-fiction and hardcover, paperback and large print. Hardcovers will be 10 cents while paperbacks will be five cents. First come, first serve with no reserves or holds.

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Don’t forget about our annual Gingerbread House Decorating event. Kids from to 4-11 can come down to the Library and decorate gingerbread houses for free! The event is on December 14 at 9:30 and 11 a.m. Sign-ups are required and begin on Monday, December 2.

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Musical events return to the Library in December with a Bell Ensemble and the Redskin Singers.

A Bell Ensemble will grace the Library with an assortment or holiday and instrumental music through the bells on Tuesday, December 3 at 7 p.m. Among the songs being played include Angels we Have Heard on High, Carol of the Bells, and Amazing Grace.

The Redskin Singers return to the Library once again for their annual presentation on Thursday, December 12 at 7:10 p.m. Come down and listen to the some traditional and not-so-traditional holiday fare from the local youth at Liberal High School.

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The Library will be closed until 4 p.m. on Wednesday, December 3rd. We will be open from 4 to 8 p.m. All due items can still be returned through the drop boxes.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Fiction Column

Hi! Let’s play Twenty Questions—who is this writing? Well, I’m gorgeous, witty, talented, educated and opinionated---certainly the last two, at the very least! Okay—it’s me, Constance Clarke of Chicago, writing a new column for your (I hope!) enjoyment, courtesy of my employer of the last 30 years, using the books from Memorial Library. First, I have—finally—realized the great value of the computer, since I use it for my columns no matter what my home address is; i.e. I am now in Texas but I am moving back to Kansas—Maize, outside of Wichita’s West side, to be precise—in late Sept. and, if Jill, our director, still agrees, I’ll send the column from there this Fall. The main reason to do move is that all of our family is up and down Hwy 54, and we are 10 to 14 hours away!

All of this is true, while the column for today deals in Fiction---and I apologize for my haste into the column but our hot water heater sprung a leak, while we were gone from home 12 days!, and a scorpion greeted me on our kitchen rug this a.m. So, we’ve had ruined carpet, pads, kitchen sink bottoms, mold—and I’ve never been so anxious to leave on a fun trip with friends as I am next week!


Okay, one of my favorite subjects—provided it’s well written—is a mystery and, especially, if it’s a British one. To wit: “Murder as a Fine Art”, by David Morrell, and you may have already read one of his 27 novels. He’ been nominated for every major mystery award and his first novel, “First Blood”, introduced the character Rambo. A series of horrific murders terrified London some 43 years before our mystery begins, and a Thomas De Quincy, “infamous for his memoir ‘Confessions of an Opium-Eater’ is the major suspect in these mass murders identical to the ones that terrorized London earlier.” So, he’s anxious to clear his name—“clear” being a relative term here since he is crippled by his addiction—so he gets aid from “his devoted daughter, Emily, and a pair of determined Scotland Yard detectives, “and England becomes a battleground between a literary star and a brilliant murderer whose lived are linked by secrets from long ago.” I practically drooled on the page. In reading small sections of it, as is my wont, I found the policemen believable, the characters just that—characters—, and the probable ending quite satisfying. Do go into LML (Liberal Memorial Library, of course!) and find it, settle in a favorite chair and enjoy! (There really IS something special about a Brit mystery!)

Now, we come to an adventure story, “The Barbed Crown; an Ethan Gage Adventure”, by William Dietrich, full of high seas adventure, guns going off at enemy ships, Mr. Gage’s many adventures with and against Bonaparte, his wife, Astiza and another seductress (out to trap him and to turn him from thwarting Bonaparte’s plans to conquer Europe to help Bony). All of this is alongside the kidnapping and freeing of his son, Harry, and, when his careful plans fail, he is put in the middle of the famous sea battle, “Battle of Trafalgar”—and that, dear readers, was a humdinger of a chapter to read—my ears hurt from the cannon’s constant firing that was taking place on many warships from several nations---water everywhere, dead bodies floating, ship’s masts hitting the ocean in broken pieces, orders yelled, people falling overboard—I was exhausted by the end of it, and I strongly recommend the book for the battle description, if nothing else! What a movie scene that would make—with or without Johnny Depp! (Speaking of, I am curious to see Depp play Tonto in the upcoming “Lone Ranger” movie.) This action-adventure is as good as a wild movie, in the same vein, and quite a fun read—go—find—read.

Sophie Kinsella is the favorite author of a lot of readers—mainly women—and she’s really quite funny, for an English girl, that is, and her newest book is “Wedding Night.” “Lottie just knows that her boyfriend is going to propose during Lunch at one of London’s fanciest restaurant”—except he doesn’t. So, when Ben, an old flame, calls her, to her surprise, “and reminds Lottie of their pact to get married if they were both still single at 30”, she jumps at the chance. Well, family and friends are stunned. So, her sister, Fliss, and Ben’s closest friend, Lorcan (Lorcan?) are determined to stop the wedding, and Fliss concocts “an elaborate scheme to sabotage their wedding night.” I mean, if you can’t depend on sisters and friends to decide what’s best for you, who can you really trust? The personalities are vividly drawn, and maybe the wedding night will go on, smoothly, or not—between oil and peanuts (well, read the book!) Seriously, it’s a light, fun, summer read from an author who knows how to write them.

This next book looked intriguing, when I was checking books in Publisher’s Weekly for Jill to consider, and she sent it to me for this column the title is “Evidence of Life”, by Barbara Sissel, and while it’s not really a great or hold-your-interest story, it’s easily worth a “B”, as a choice for summer reading. Abby’s husband, Nick, and daughter, Lindsey, go on a father-daughter trip and disappear. So, Abby sets out to find out what happened and as disturbing clues begin to surface, “Abby realizes that the truth may be far more sinister than she imagined” and that everything she once believed about her marriage and family may be wrong. There’s a few more characters involved, the suspense quotient is fairly high, so, as I said, or implied, the edge-of-your-seat kind of feeling is not the kind that C.J.Box or Jeffrey Deaver gives, but it’s not at the bottom of my list, either, so get it and enjoy it. Wouldja like a preview of what’s coming?

  • James Lee Burke’s “Light of the World: A Dave Robicheaux Novel”
  • “Unseen” by Karin Slaughter
  •  “Save Yourself”, by Kelly Braffet (this title got a star and a box around its description, which is the top rating that Publisher’s Weekly can give a title)
  • “Human Remains”, by Elizabeth Haynes (well known and popular)
  • ”Lemon Orchard”, by Luanne Rice
  • ”JFK’s Last Hundred Days: The Transformation of a Man and the Emergence of a Great President”, by Thurston Clarke
  • “Miss Anne in Harlem; The White Women of the Black Renaissance”, by Carla Kaplan (starred and boxed).
Stay tuned and keep cool and enjoy reading—always. Be sure your pet has fresh water, both morning and evening, and keep cool, yourself. Thanks for reading, bye!

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Nonfiction Column

Allo, Chickies—I'm back from several weeks somewhere in outer space—Christmas, kidney stones, and extra volunteering at the Kroc Ctr. here (the Salvation Army has built nine of them and is on their way to a tenth outside of Washington which will be 84,000 sq. ft.!) and unfortunately, due to a computer crash and replacement and learning how to “do” this column in a new setting, plus a deadline, this will be a short column I will, however, list the books I was sent from the library, and say something about a selection of them as I have an appointment in about one hour and I need to get this column sent. Okay, here are the Non-Fiction books that the library sent me—and, by the way, the main reason I’ve run out of time is that our Liberal mail is, apparently, sent to Amarillo for further distribution, so these titles were three days later than usual.

Okay, "Cesar Millan’s Short Guide to a Happy Dog; 98 Essential Tips and Techniques"; "The Heavy; a Mother, a Daughter, a Diet", by Dara-Lynn Weiss; "When Spiritual But Not Religious Is Not Enough; Seeing God in Surprising Places, Even the Church", by Lillian Daniel ( who is a minister); "Grand Central; How a Train Station Transformed America", by Sam Roberts; "The Real Jane Austen; A Life in Small Things", by Paula Byrne.  I was so very pleased by this selection, sent to me, and I will say a few things about each of them, as I have time available—but—pay attention!—they are at the “liberry” (as the kids say) for you to check out and enjoy and learn from.

Ready—Set—Go!  Millan is, as we dog people know, a dog expert who believes in Control, humans being the ones displaying it and it does not—not—mean harshness or yelling or, as I’ve been known to do, doing sharp pulls on a leash when annoyed on a walk, or raising my "stage voice" in annoyance. He says, "to be a pack leader you must be in control, i.e. if you are on a walk and your dog starts to pull ahead, take control by changing and immediately going in another direction; if your dog is exhibiting a behavior you do not want, stop it then.

Control is not being unkind; humans have trouble with the words, "control" and "dominance" but, says Cesar, if these words disturb you, then substitute other words that mean the same thing but has pleasanter images—identify why the words bother you and, if necessary, replace them with words that are neutral to you, if necessary because, to dogs, our words don’t mean anything—they are just tones of sound. Dogs communicate with energy and—pay attention!—they respond best to us when we are calm and assertive, not hurried, angry, or impatient. This book will bring you plenty of knowledge, says Cesar, "achieving calmness, however, is up to you—work with me and read this book with an open mind."  I  loved one sentence that said, in effect, their mothers never talked to them!

The book, "The Heavy", was in column form, for about a year, in "Vogue" magazine and raised a furor when the mother of a 7-year-old, Bea, was diagnosed as being obese and the mother was told to teach her better eating habits—women, for or against, weighed in (little pun there!) and the biggest point that Dara had to confront was her own eating habits as well as those of her husband and son, and compounding the challenge "were eating environments that set Bea up to fail and unwelcome judgments from her own friends" who, while applauding the idea for Bea’s sake, often were the cause of distress by saying , "Oh, it’s just one cookie—that won’t hurt her." Dara, the mother, "was criticized as readily for enabling Bea’s condition as she was for enforcing the rigid limits necessary to address it—she was made to feel so wrong for trying to do the right thing."  It’s funny in places, uncomfortable in others, but all mothers can identify with it—either from their young years or as a mother today—and,yes, Yogurt does have calories, I learned, and since I think it tastes strange anyway, I was amused ‘cause it is touted to be a necessity on all diets. Nonsense!  How does Bea ultimately do—and the rest of the family? Read the book!

The book, "Grand Central; How a Train Station Transformed America", by Sam Roberts is just wonderful—its beginning, its deterioration and the struggle to save it (which had Jackie-O in the lead), also the homeless people, the great clock in its center, its history through wars—you start reading it and resent any interruptions.  Get it and enjoy.

Since beginning this particular column, I have learned there is a little more time to devote to it than I first thought—thank heavens! I loved the points made, in a funny yet definite way, in "When Spiritual But Not Religious’ Is Not Enough; Seeing God in Surprising Places, Even the Church", by Lillian Daniel. She is well-qualified to speak on such matters as she is the senior minister of the First Congregational Church, outside the Chicago area, since 2004 and the author of two previous books.

She has a knack of making her points with pointed humor and begins by describing a conversation with another passenger during a plane ride, he said, "Let me give you my testimony, if you will allow it, about why I do not attend church" and, after the explanation (by then, I would hazard a guess, they were well over the Rio Grande!) of early years, said his marriage had ended, it was, really, "my wife’s church" and so he found himself spending his Sunday mornings putting on his running shoes and taking off through the woods---"I see myself in the trees and the butterflies.  I am one with the great outdoors. I find God there, and I realized that I am deeply spiritual but no longer religious."

"I was not shocked or upset by the man’s story—I have heard it a million times before—there’s always the long walk, the trees, the walk on the beach—and don’t forget the sunset ‘cause these people always want to tell you that God is in the sunset but push a little harder on this satisfying and self-developed religion and you don’t get much depth—you find God in the sunset and trees—so do I.  But how about in the face of Cancer? Cancer is part of nature, too—as is homelessness, Leukemia, frailty in older people. I think God does want us to feel gratitude. I do not think God particularly wants us to feel "lucky"—I do think God wants us to witness pain and suffering and appalling conditions, and get angry and want to do something about it."

Great writing, funny stories—always ending with words of compassion, wisdom or, yes, even stinging sarcasm to "move" us. Get the book and look up from it, when a point hits you, and think about what Ms. Daniel is saying.

I’m heading to Lawrence for the K.U. basketball game in 2 days and can only assume that the highways will be okay for traveling—and don’t let anyone ever tell you that South Texas does not get cold days in the Winter—it ain’t necessarily so, but blizzards are relatively  rare.

Find a good book at the library and sit in an easy chair, sip hot tea, chocolate or coffee (with dark choc. bits of candy) and figure that Spring will, indeed, come fairly soon. Don’t leave pets out in the cold outdoors overnight, please, and to make my point, go out, just before bedtime, in average wear of jeans and a sweater, stay there 40 minutes and you’ll see how unpleasant it can be.  Buy some small chocolate bunny candy and give some out to others and enjoy the pleased looks on the faces of the recipients. Spring will be here soon, I promise. Bye!

Sunday, December 16, 2012

New Titles Abound @ Your Library


As this column is being typed, visions of gingerbread houses are dancing through the heads of over 50 children signed up for our Gingerbread House Decorating Event, which will be history by the time you read this column.  Those same visions are dancing through the heads of staff members who will mix about 25 batches of royal icing and put together those 50+ houses before the children arrive on Saturday morning.  As in past years, surely it will prove to be a good time indeed for all involved.  Our teen staff and teen volunteers are a huge help with this project and are greatly appreciated!

 Since the last writing of Kids’ Corner on November 11, some changes have taken place in the children’s library.  The desk is now manned from 11 a.m. until 8 p.m. Monday through Thursday and 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Friday.   Story times have changed as well.  Preschoolers now meet on Monday beginning at 11:15.  On Tuesday, infants come to story time at 11:15.  Toddlers have their story time at 11:15 on Thursday mornings.  Please stop by the library or check our website for the exact dates that each of these groups of youngsters meets. 

The display rack just inside the children’s area has been continuously stocked with Christmas books for the past several days.  These books, as well as any others that are on display, may be checked out.  A number of new chapter books and picture books have recently come into the library.  One of these books could possibly win the Caldecott or Newbery award this winter, so make sure you check out some of these new titles.  Here are a couple of the new chapter book titles.   The first is Cold Cereal by Adam Rex.  Fine print on the cover reads “there’s a little bit of magic in every box.” Inside the dust jacket is a chart like a typical nutrition label on food items.  It reads as follows:

That should be intriguing enough to attract some readers!  The next title is The Boy on Cinnamon Street by Phoebe Stone.  This is the description provided by the publisher “A wounded girl and the boy who won’t give up on her.  Seventh grader Louise Terrace has a secret admirer.  He sends her notes when she needs cheering up, and draws chalk hearts on the sidewalk outside her apartment.  It should be the perfect romance…but somehow they never meet up.

 “It’s the same with gymnastics.  Louise is a natural champion.  She can do cartwheels all day long and even backflips on the balance beam.  She should be captain of the school team…but somehow it doesn’t work out.

 “There’s something holding Louise back, a family secret from the past so heart-breaking that it’s got her frozen inside.  And it’s going to take a miraculous spring to thaw her out again.”

 For the younger crowd, new to our collection is Hello! Hello! by Matthew Cordell.  In our techno-saturated society, a young lady finds a meaningful escape in the great outdoors.  Follow her on her escapades in the pages of this book.  Philip Stead’s newest, A Home for Bird is a cleverly written, wonderful story of friendship.  Do plan to stop by and check out these or other new titles on display in our in both the Easy book and J Fiction areas.

 In a never-ending quest to assist parents with valuable early literacy materials, Memorial Library is putting together 6 by 6 kits in line with the statewide initiative of the same name.  These colorful yellow and blue bags will contain a book and a suggestion card of activities to use with the book.     The kits are geared to three separate age groups—early talkers, talkers, and pre-readers.  Be watching for more information about availability of these resources in the very near future. 

 With Christmas fast approaching, plan to stop in and check out some materials, as the library will be closed December 24, 25, and 26.  Have a Merry Christmas and we’ll see you at Memorial Library!

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Non-fiction

As one of Chicago’s famous sportscasters always—always said (even during sleet and snow!)—“It’s a beautiful day in Chicago!” and my father, driving in rain or sleet and snow, had unfavorable comments! However, Fall is usually everybody’s favorite season and the weather “pretty much” behaves, and it’s a good time to get into or continue your walking and exercising and planning for Thanksgiving! Don’t overwhelm yourself, however (said she who is planning a birthday party for her husband this Monday and quietly tearing her hair! Himself is in “the mid-eighties” and doing quite well, considering a badly-used and abused shoulder and a back that can hamper his running in a 10 K race—or, actually, a 2 K would be a problem. In live, however, things are what they are—they are facts that one deals with and we are looking forward to a Christmas cruise to the islands, out of Galveston, and I’m really looking forward to seeing Galveston and a neighbor here is a 5th generation Galvestonian and told me a lot about its wonders and history.

Since we’re dealing in facts, let me quickly state that this is a non-Fiction col. (smooth segue, right?) and the first one is a good “relationship advice book”, “How to Have a Match Made in Heaven”, by Ariel and Shya Kane, and this couple has taught/given seminars to individuals, couples, and organizations “how to live in the moment and unwire the knee-jerk behaviors that get in the way of living life with ease”, such as Himself and I discussing the fascinating subject of, do I have to have any more clothes? Everyone has the “button” that can be pushed and this couple discusses the buttons and other factors i.e. everything is not 50-50 and one of the other demands that the other one do their share or give in their share or take responsibility for their mistakes (I don’t recall the last time I made a mistake, actually, but I can tell you in 15 seconds prep time the ones Himself needs to pay attention to!) By the way, all of this is in humor, you understand.

One of their first points is excellent but you gotta think about it. “In order to be kinder to yourself and others, you first have to pay attention to the way you currently behave, and it starts by noticing when you’re harsh and when you use derogatory terms or an abusive tone. When you notice this behavior and don’t judge yourself for doing it, then the behavior will dwindle away on its own. Do not criticize yourself for what you see, then you’re resisting your behavior, which will only that that despite your best intentions, you won’t be able to stop. You’ll be trapped in a cycle of behaving “badly,” then feeling “badly,” and then behaving “badly” all over again. When you are harsh with yourself for being harsh, it simply reinforces the behavior, and, in other words, what you resist persists, grows stronger, and dominates your life. But, if you have been unkind to your partner, it’s still a really good idea to apologize.”

Their points are quite good, and learning how we can grow stronger and be nicer in our relationships is a worthwhile endeavor, in my humble opinion. Their points are taken from actual people whom they’ve talked to and I found this an interesting point—intimacy—“When Shya (her husband) say the word ‘intimacy’, your mind probably goes to physical and you thought he meant sex, when what he means is an extension of how you are being together in the kitchen or the living room. A lot of us need to recognize that it’s how you handle the glass of orange juice or pour your partner’s coffee or what you laugh at and share the same instant thoughts—it’s about actually being where you are in everything that you do, rather than going somewhere else in your thoughts or actions—i.e. turning away from the person rather than laughing or adding to the comments.” I thought it an excellent point and we’ve all both—I stress both partners—done this, then later on said, “Now, what were you finding so funny this morning?”—7 hours later! The moment is gone, lil darling. I was, frankly, a little leery of this book and found it very common sense and their observations quiet intelligent, so go find it and check it out and, just maybe, find some ideas you can ponder and, perhaps, use whether your marriage be a few months old or, in my case, quite a few years.

This next book, I guess I just assumed must be fairly obvious by now, and maybe to those of us from age 55 on up it is, but, as I read “The One Hundred; A Guide to the Pieces Every Stylish Woman Must Own”, by Nina Garcia, I came to my conclusion that, honestly, many of these pieces we all have seen, bought, debated about buying, and become more conscious of what we’re putting in our closets. Ms. Garcia is “the unerring, formidable fashion judge on the TV show, “Project Runway”, and has terrific credentials of having worked with top designers and now lives and works in New York City (I’d have bet on that over, say, Forgan, Ok.).Let’s see some of what she has to say—let’s start with the exotic skin handbag. Shop for and find one at a really good second-hand store—they are much cheaper there—and the three skins that will never—never—go out of style are crocodile, snakeskin and ostrich, “and if you need justification for spending what you assuredly will spend even at a bargain, these bags never—ever—go out of style.

Coco Chanel once said, “Luxury must be comfortable, otherwise it is not luxury”—in other words, Poppets, one should not be overly conscious of the style one is wearing—it should be comfortable but it can also be luxurious and warm and just plain wonderful i.e. cashmere sweaters. They do go on sale, you know, and there is no bulk, it’s warm, and you’ll love the light, easy feel—“it is advisable to have as many as possible in as many versions as possible.” Amen, Sister, and, yes, they, too, go on sale at dept. stores as Spring approaches. Need more down-to-earth ideas from Ms. Garcia? By all means—let’s talk about brooches and cable-knit sweaters. The old idea---as in “used-to-be”—was to wear a discreet but pretty flower brooch at the V of a neckline or on a suit lapel (just one, please, my grandmother said). Fageddiboudit! Wear four or five close together on a lapel, pocket, large collar or wherever you choose—you can buy them at inexpensive jewelry stores or Dillard’s or Macy’s or Nordstrom’s or most anywhere ‘cause they’re the newest fun way to wear them! Bright and sparkly (like our personalities, right ladies!

The cable-knit sweater began, in Ireland, hand-knitted and very warm in order to keep the fishermen warm (even though some people thought it was Ali McGraw in “Love Story”!)and there’s a personal style for everyone i.e. “Weekend Casual; Supremely Sophisticated, Thoroughly Modern and Prep School Chic---and the last one is, stay true to your roots and wear a J.Crew version with chinos and moccasins. Great, fun book to look through and, dare I say it, learn from and what are the classics and what are “fads.” I, personally, at this stage in life, have some of each. Good luck!

Wouldn’t it be great fun to listen in on presidential phone calls? Can you believe that JFK deliberately had a tape deck installed in his office but—guess what?—“In July 1962, in an effort to preserve an accurate of presidential decision-making in a highly charged atmosphere of conflicting viewpoints, strategic tactics, JFK installed hidden recording machines in both the Oval Office and in the Cabinet Room. The result is a priceless historical archive comprising some 265 hours of taped material” and the book is “Listening In; The Secret White House Recordings of John F. Kennedy”, Ted Widmer. Checking out this book also includes 2 CD’s, available at the desk.

His daughter, Caroline, does the foreword, should that interest you. Here are the stories behind the story “in the unguarded words and voices of the decision-makers themselves.” Some of this country’s really important events, that are covered, Cuban Missile Crisis, Space Race, Vietnam, and the Nuclear Test Ban Treaty and there is a dramatic level in the 2 CD’s to make clear what a lot of history we’ve all been through. It’s an important book—and, actually, quite readable—and one that perhaps all of us should read and ponder. I, personally, found the conversation about could we go to the moon and when between Mr. Webb and Kennedy and you will, too. Please check out this book, as well as the CD’s, and learn while enjoying.

The last book is “Change Your Words, Change Your Life; Understanding the Power of Every Word You Speak”, by a famous author, Joyce Meyer, who believes (and uses Bible passages to brilliantly bracket them) “Words are a big deal. I believe that our words can increase or decrease our level of joy, affect the answers to our prayers and have a positive or negative effect on our future.” She provides a series of guidelines for making sure that what we say is constructive not negative and achieve the results in our lives and personal relations we want and, actually provides good stepping stones. Some of her topics include
  • How to Tame Your Tongue (thought of a few people to send this book to already, haven’t ‘cha?)
  • When to Talk and When Not to Talk (now, I’ve got a few people who could benefit!);
  • The Corrosion of Complaints
  • How to Have a Smart Mouth and Do You Really Have to Give Your Opinion?(I just feel I should share my valuable insights on almost anything—okay?) 
There are my choices for this column, and I sincerely hope one of them strikes a chord with you! Do check out our newest Non-Fiction books at the library and say a friendly “hi” to our staff ‘cause they like and are good at what they do and they do a great deal. I know our Board appreciated the extra events through the Spring and Summer and don’t forget our newest electronic “gadgets” we provide. Enjoy the Fall weather and coming chilly Winter ‘cause it gives us all a chance to stay in where it’s warm and read our favorite authors—or maybe some new ones on the scene. Go see the movie, “Argo” and reflect that it’s all true---also coming up, in the movie realm, is “Lincoln” which it already being talked about for an Oscar. Enjoy your walking and speak kindly to everyone. Bye!

Sunday, September 9, 2012

Fiction

Okay, Poppets, the vacation is over, the deep tan is fading, lazy afternoons of swimming or hiking or the main, easy Summer events are coming to an end—maybe not entirely in that you can still do a few of them for another 30 to 34 days, but, according to the calendar, we’re headed into Fall—and not a moment too soon, for most of us! Certainly I’m not suggesting getting out the Christmas ornaments, but it is a time to leave one season behind and I think we all do that, mentally. For instance, all the magazines and stores are finished with Summer clothes and accessories (bar-b-q sets, rattan chairs and plastic tables, and kiddie pools!) However, there’s one enjoyment we have all year round—books to read—and it’s great fun to “lose yourself” in a good story—which brings us to the subject of this column which is good Fiction.

Just so you can begin noticing, the further we get into Fall/Winter, the more you will be seeing popular authors in print and don’t forget to notice the new authors,’cause they are tomorrow’s best sellers! To put it in a current frame, Paul Ryan and our mayor, Julian Castro, are the up-and–coming powerful politicians of the next 12 to 14 years -- and, I hope, Condoleza Rice! I’ve vote for her for president now, if I could!

Well, I doubt if she ever runs for the top office but since we’re talking Fiction, let us go to the first title (how’s that, Patrice? Slick, huh? After another 100 or so Fiction columns—and their graceful segues—a simple bracelet would be nice—probably for you for making me aware of a smooth beginning to the column! We’ll discuss it later.) About the time that I think I’m pretty “in the know” about Fiction as to authors, trends, what’s developing in the field, Memorial Library sends me books to review that,
A. I’ve never heard of the authors and/or
B.  I find them hard for me—strictly as a reader now—to get “in sync” with.
It doesn’t mean I won’t be and won’t ever like the authors, it just means I can feel like a dog on a waxed floor, for a time.

So, “A City of Broken Glass”, by Rebecca Cantrell, is in that category, for me, and it says, on the cover, “A Hannah Vogel novel”, and if that rings a bell for you, great! She’s received starred reviews, by the august Publisher’s Weekly, and written three other books that, apparently, like this current on deals with the awful rise of the Nazis and their rise to power and, certainly, what it took to dominate several countries in Europe.

Hannah is a former spy for the Brits, as well as being an editor, and is traveling to Poland with her 12-year-old son, Anton, to write an article on a local festival,”when she hears that 12,000 Polish Jews have been deported from Germany”, and she changes plans and rushes to get the story on the refugees, regardless of the consequences. Her ex-lover enters into it, she helps a Jewish friend, Paul, search for his missing toddler, and tries to get the requisite paperwork together to exit the country. Along with all of this is a toddler whom she is determined to help, even though it puts her family at risk.

This all takes place before the terrible”Night of Broken Glass” where the windows and everything glass was broken to drive the Jews out of their homes and businesses—and, I imagine, to make their places of worship as well by the broken glass. It makes one shake their head and murmur—“Man’s inhumanity to Man.” The pace is exciting and the story is, while true, certainly frightening.

Now we have "This is How It Ends", by Kathleen MacMahon. It’s a love story and seems, upon perusal, quite charming. The plot is simplicity itself; "Bruno, an American, has come to Ireland to search for his roots and Addie, an out-of-work architect, is recovering from heartbreak and taking care of her infirm father." That’s how it begins, as two strangers try to get to know each other, in a fairly limited space of time.

"Back in the States, he had visited his mother every week." He just didn’t tell anyone about it, not even his girlfriend. Something she found impossible to understand—In Bruno’s opinion, she refused to understand. She was furious to find out his mother had been alive all that time. “I assumed she was dead! You only ever talked about her in the past tense—you never mentioned visiting her." He hadn’t actually intended to lie to her, but he could see that it amounted to the same thing. She thought it was about her and white with outrage she walked out. Bruno was shocked to find that he wasn’t even sorry."

That small segment showed a great deal about Bruno, his kindness and attachment to family—which was what he was doing in Ireland—and his eventual being close to Addie is done charmingly and well. A good author to "tune into" and just enjoy. She enables her characters to deal with love and learning of a dreadful fate, all being considerate and coping as well as they can—how does it end? Well.



Okay, next book—and I thought it was to be a Western by the title; “Tombstone Blues,” by Ken Hodgson, and couldn’t have been more wrong. Samantha Sterling has a new job, running a B and B in Tombstone, Arizona "The sprawling B and B is owned by a group of" –are you ready for this?--“gay hit-men and their tough-as-nails mother looking for help with their 'real' business of whacking people (killing them, that is) for The Company. All in the name of National Security, that is.”

Well, Samantha, after witnessing the poisoning of "a client on the first day on the job, is given a choice—joining in the family business or follow the dead man down an abandoned mineshaft.” Peachy. So, she wisely decides to play along—while planning to escape. The question, as always, is How? She will have to join forces with and learn from Esther, the experienced hit-lady who carries her gun in her purple beehive hairdo, so she begins learning "the hit-woman’s craft". Of course, before long Samantha "learns that removing the scum of the earth from the earth has its advantages……Soon, an outside force comes in and the gang has to battle in earnest to save themselves.

It’s a fun book to read, too. At one point, they are all discussing a certain gentleman and what should be done about him; "We’re not going to kill the man, are we?" asked Samantha and Esther chimes in with "We haven’t been paid to whack him", as she chugged down the last of her wine, “so that’s the end of that. Dinner sounds good—I’m off to take my nap. Wake me up if I’m not up by 6". I’m certainly glad that Esther understands basic business! Great, fun book and the lead man seems to understand cats—so I’ll overlook his chosen profession. Disregarding the gang’s choice of profession, this story is hilarious and I’m going to look forward to reading the next book along the same vein. Go find this.

Speaking of odd or interesting or laughable or just plain off titles, let’s consider “Serenade to a Cuckoo; A P.I. Mystery”, by Flo Fitzpatrick—and recipes are included! Heckuva deal! I always like looking at recipes., even though I may not bother to actually cook them, you understand. (Whatever happened to “help in the kitchen”?)

I’ll keep in the moment and tell you that this is about P.I. McGinnis, “who tends to dive into dangerous situations with nothing big a strong sense of humor as her back-up and who has a TV show about her life.” There is an antique clock that holds the key to the murders and if she can’t produce it, she’ll be next on the list of the recently deceased. If you like “light mysteries” and a good cast of people, this might be the one for you. The Brownies and Fudge Sauce look wonderful and if you want to try to make them, I think they’ll make you proud.

These titles are all good Summer reading, not “heavy”, and these books will sit well with any preference readers might have from romance to mystery to “characters” and you can thank me later! “The time has come, the walrus said, to speak of other things—of shoes and ships and sealing wax, and cabbages and kings”—and for the time being, we must part company—but a Non-Fiction will arrive next and in a relatively short time. So, fire up the grill, shape the hamburgers but do not pack them tightly, perhaps a small casserole of a mixture of baked and chili beans and, if you can find it, three tab. Out of a jar of the wonderful “Bacon Jam” and some onions, and sliced tomatoes—and no bread or bun, just put the hamburger on the plate—and read a book after the meal—outside, on the porch or patio.

The time will come soon enough when it will be too dark and cold to sit outside after dinner, so take advantage of this “soft time of weather” and if all you do is watch the sparrows or Mourning Doves or the kids playing ball, do it! Rufus Cooper likes watching the trunks of trees carefully to see if he can see the quick flick of a squirrel’s tale—the insult will not go unnoticed—and the chase is on! He never catches one but “hope springs eternal”, does it not? Take care and Caio! Bye!

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Non-Fiction

The great charm of books that are “true and not given to idle fancy” is that our element of trust is with the author, his research, his point of view and we like the manner in which he expounds, that is, puts forward his ideas and, at least to him, his point of righteousness/viewpoint/ "this-is-the- way-to-look-at-this." Many times, the author doesn’t particularly care whether everyone—or even the majority of readers—agrees with him—he’s not running a popularity contest in his writing and stated opinions to support his theories but he does care that the readers at least consider the points he raises. I think all of us do, when the point is, to us, clear and obvious and needing to be recognized as its own authority. Fine. I can trust an author’s intelligence and messianic spirit as well as the next person, but I do reserve—as is my right, to disagree with a theory or “point”-- yet still see the author’s point of view. "Civil discourse" was, I think, the idea of the Founding Fathers, the right to disagree but not become bitterly personal and use vicious verbal or written attacks. Ah well, you can see how well our country is doing now vis a vis with the president and Congress “communicating” and “discussing strong opinions”, but I digress from the realm of Non-Fiction books.


So, let’s look at a selection of books that are available in the library and I hope you find one to suit your mood and tastes from it. To begin: “Life Everlasting; The Animal Way of Death”, by Bernd Heinrich, who, according to the literary experts at the “New York Times Book Review”, says about this book, “Heinrich, who combines his keen scientific eye with the soul of a poet, glimpses an entirely different realm, one filled with wondrous activities both above and below the seemingly lifeless countryside.” So there—now you know. For those of you still reading, with slightly glazed eyes, thinking there has to be more to be said—pay attention.

This author has a hunting camp in Maine, and when a friend asked to be buried there so that he might have “a green burial”, it got Heinrich to asking lifelong questions, i.e. “How exactly does the animal world deal with the flip side of the life cycle and what lessons can be learned from a close look at the animal world?”  His work/field research (literally out in the fields and observing) focused on “the fascinating doings of creatures most of us would turn away from”, as in the field mouse burials conducted by carrion beetles (do they have a way to play the perennial “Amazing Grace” on leaves?), “the communication strategies of ravens” and the teamwork displayed by wolves. Foxes and Weasels (animal not human, that is)and bald eagles in the dispersal of their prey in the harsh cold winters and the author talks about and proves that humans still play out “ancient and important as scavengers, thereby turning life to life.”

The details are thoroughly written about, the decay, the smell, what each animal body taught him, from bees to elephant dung, but there’s no denying that the subject has its rules and methods and the outcome always in the genes.  To the tiny mites, for example, beetles are simply a vehicle for hitchhiking to more fresh fly eggs, and, I must admit, his adventures with the large animal carcasses was fascinating and I’m sure the odor, after 5 days, was daunting.  An interesting book, by a very smart man who is a contributor to national publications and is professor emeritus of Biology and the Univ. of Vermont. Check it out from the library.

Be a Great Single Parent; Be Stress-Free and  Happy”, Susie Hayman, has some really common-sense advice combined with smarts and humor. There are, today, so many single parents with so many hurdles to jump both with their children and looking at their own wants and needs, that I’d think this book would have appeal and support.

Some of the topics are very personal and these topics are talked about, i.e.Getting Over Feelings of Guilt and Failure; Helping Your Children Cope; Going Alone; New Partners, Dating and Mating; and, in my opinion, a powerful thought/weapon is the “I” statement, which are all about to say “what I want”, “what bothers me is” and “I need”—they help both the person speaking and the one being spoken to and makes it clear as to what is going on and what can be done to help. All behavior experts agree that using the “I” pronoun is always non-confrontational, expresses your feelings, you can –and should—explain why you feel that way, and , at the end, you express what you would like to see happen. “You” is usually the percursor to being antagonistic and will not resolve the issues---but, as I’ve said, simply changing some wording is helpful.  A most sensible book and written in an easy, conversational tone, not a lecturing one.  Go find a copy!

Osa and Martin; For the Love of Adventure”, is the story of an extremely well-known couple who lived an adventurous life, were world movie wildlife pioneers and, “on Osa’s initiative took their wildlife series onto the vaudeville stage to raise money for expeditions to the South Seas, her decisions were usually valid and valuable and they were together until Martin’s tragic death in a plane crash in 1937”.

Martin had been so well thought of that he was offered membership in the world-famous Explorer’s Club, but, at the time of course, women were not admitted to that select group.  They honeymooned in cannibal country and did early, dangerous safaris into lion country and they explored and were delighted with the world around them. Their mission was to bring Africa to Americans, and they did well, but the KKK were deeply suspicious of them. A wonderful life, inhabited with their “pets” and they were almost continually exhausted, traveling all over America , but “did it for Africa” and their next big expedition was to also be using the movies’ newest thing of “sound”. I really enjoyed this story and loved, particularly, reading about a couple who completely agreed on what they wanted to do with their lives—and did it. You’ll enjoy it, too, and it’s amazing how far we’ve all come in how we regard Africa, adventures, lions, and other cultures. A most delightful book.

I had never heard of “Rainy Brain, Sunny Brain: How to Retrain Your Brain to Overcome Pessimism and Achieve a More Positive Outlook”, by Elaine Fox, which certainly includes those people who are prone for depression, anxiety, fears, and addiction for those on one end of the scale while the pleasure seekers, who want to stay “up”, “are inclined towards risky or destructive behavior can learn to take control of their lives.”

I find it encouraging that she feels that we can retrain our brains to brighten up our lives, feel more positive and in control, and that, in essence, we can influence our own personalities—rather than letting others tell us what we “should do” or “you need to get a grip and change things in your life”. It’s a more positive thought to feel you—just you—are responsible for your decisions. She and other researchers discovered, both with their patients and returning vets, that reliving the experiences of assault, rape, burglary can and will re-trigger the feelings of panic and helplessness, and the studies go on with how to help people conquer their fears—whether of spiders, or getting on an airplane, or clowns or ticking clocks—if you’re in a state of panic over your personal demon, this book really has some excellent helpful ideas.

One of the most interesting, cutting-edge technologies, is “extinction training” and, prior to that (it involved working with the brain’s cortex and mild electric shocks on the wrist as the bad memory was re-lived by the patient) being exposed over and over to what the person was afraid of i.e. spiders, barking dogs, etc. Fascinating book, not, however,an “easy read” but well worth sticking with.

Okay, Poppets, time to go  to the stores in the mall and force myself to look for a couple of things in Chico’s, so, walk the dog in early morning cool, call a friend you haven’t talked with in awhile, get a double-dip ice cream cone, and I’ll see you next column. Bye!